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tired

petty cash claims are a pain in the ass. more so when u had to look through 9 pages of itemised billing, pull out the business contacts and keep seeing his number everywhere.

guess it’s gonna be the last bill that i’ll have to suffer this pain. next month, his number would almost be non existent.

chatted with anso earlier. he did tell me that if he could tell me frankly, he would say i made a wise choice. much so for my own sake than for anything else.

some times, my heart do go all out to him with all the problems that he faces. i really really do wish all the best for him.

am dead tired. off to bed now!



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Hi there! Thanks for popping by. I'm Cherie, a ftwm (full-time working mum) to 3 lovely kids (2 boys & a princess) and my motto in life is to BE HAPPY. Sure, life isn't all that smooth but it's the mentality that counts, no? This blog documents my life. Or rather, snippets of my life that has passed me by. I love capturing life memories in the blog and being able to read back and laugh at myself (or anyone). I love to eat (A LOT), travel and paint my own nails so the blog is mostly about that. Is that considered lifestyle? Of cos, the family is also very much an integral part of me so there would be loads of memories about the husband and my kids - Jerry (9yo), Jerome (7yo) and Leia (2.5yo) and everyone else that's close to me. I like documenting the kids' milestones, their growing up years, their achievements (and sometimes, mine), and my struggles and battles with motherhood. It sure ain't easy. I love seeking out good food and travelling, is trigger-happy, love new gadgets, love exploring new places and strives to live life to the fullest. I aspire to travel the world as much as I can, to soak in the different sights across the various continents and visit all the Disneylands in the world (almost there!). Have fun reading and do drop me a comment to say hi! Love, Cherie Lim Find me on Instagram.

11 Comments

  • sepps2

    I’m probably really late, but I just had time to catch up with everything.

    in any case, I believe you did what is best for yourself now and in the future as well. hope you’ll be much happier soon too. take GOOD care of yourself! 🙂

    • cherieladieblogs

      thanks girl. 🙂

      I am moving on just fine.. just a little hiccups here and there but i guess its all part of the big picture called life! 🙂

      i’ll be strong, cos i know many out there are rooting for me. 🙂

  • lilsnooze

    hi dear. just managed to catch up on all your posts.

    It takes great courage to move on. *hugs*
    It is inevitable that there will be a blackout period where u get down everytime something reminds u of him. But its human, cos it is a relationship afterall.
    Rem to keep the big picture in mind and know that what u did was for the best.

  • Anonymous

    Hi Cherie,

    you been v strong and brave! I wonder if i can get myself out of this too…what i am experiencing is very similar to what u have gone through…i get in and out..in and out…kinda feeling tired about it….

    Lynn

    • cherieladieblogs

      thanks lynn. i guess the best way to doing it is keep going out with friends.. you’ll be obliged to put up a smiley face and for all you know, u’ll start enjoying yourself and other stuff don’t matter that much.

      else, really sit down and ascertain what you really want for yourself. quit asking yourself the “what ifs” questions cos they’ll only pull you down into the whirlpool again.

      think nike when all else fails – just do it! 🙂

      i hope things will be better for you soon! *hugs*

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