Violation
Remember e resolution i’ve set sometime back about leaving e office before 8.30pm. I have been dilligently keeping to it. But twice this week, i headed home very late, way passed e time.
There were times where i thought the work is quite sucky, other times, i just enjoy it no matter how tired. Such is a contradiction that sways according to my mental state.
So, this week = sucky week (having started work last sunday and i have to work on both days this weekend, plus tiring week coming up & exam next sunday) =(
*yawns*
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it’s a scary thing when you see someone you have been familiar with all this while seating across the table feeling like a total stranger. What has gotten into me?
(in a shoes shop, me strutting around in e shop trying some heels)
He: since when you started wearing such high heels?
Me: huh? I have always been…
He: well, i had never seen it.
Me: (grabbed my existing heels and made a comparison with e one i was trying…)
He: oh…………
(in a restaurant having dinner)
Me: did you say this tom yam is damn good?
He: Ya! Don’t you agree?
Me: (face crinkles in disgust) huh?
He: since when have you becomed so particular about your food?
Me: (look of disbelief) i have ALWAYS been particular about food! Besides, this doesn’t even have e tom yam taste and e whole soup is coconut milk!
Have we grown that far apart while we weren’t looking?
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Cherie
Hi there! Thanks for popping by. I'm Cherie, a ftwm (full-time working mum) to 3 lovely kids (2 boys & a princess) and my motto in life is to BE HAPPY. Sure, life isn't all that smooth but it's the mentality that counts, no? This blog documents my life. Or rather, snippets of my life that has passed me by. I love capturing life memories in the blog and being able to read back and laugh at myself (or anyone). I love to eat (A LOT), travel and paint my own nails so the blog is mostly about that. Is that considered lifestyle? Of cos, the family is also very much an integral part of me so there would be loads of memories about the husband and my kids - Jerry (9yo), Jerome (7yo) and Leia (2.5yo) and everyone else that's close to me. I like documenting the kids' milestones, their growing up years, their achievements (and sometimes, mine), and my struggles and battles with motherhood. It sure ain't easy. I love seeking out good food and travelling, is trigger-happy, love new gadgets, love exploring new places and strives to live life to the fullest. I aspire to travel the world as much as I can, to soak in the different sights across the various continents and visit all the Disneylands in the world (almost there!). Have fun reading and do drop me a comment to say hi! Love, Cherie Lim Find me on Instagram.
7 Comments
pishako
bizzare and def growing apart with aloofness. It’s eerie but sad.
cherieladieblogs
ok. aloofness on my end or his or in general?
pishako
in general..
it feels quite cold.
cherieladieblogs
i think its more me than anything else.
he tries, but im unwilling. as in, im not that accomodative anymore.
i_believe
I think you need to think whether you still want to continue with this r/s girl 🙂
pishako
i think so too.
You r aldy losing the faith..
past entries on your r/ship have been morbid
i_believe
Yups 🙂
I get this feeling you are giving up (maybe you have already gave up) but you are not willing to face it?
Or maybe its just me. But in any case, I feel you really should think it through carefully how you want to proceed inside of getting stuck in the rut 🙂
*hugs*