annoyed
why is it that people always have the notion that i have to be with my bf all the time? (especially when it is almost a CONTRARY in reality?) why is it that people always ask me abt my guy when i ask them out?
does everyone thinks that the moment one is attached, the time must be reserved for the boyfriend and its a sin to hang out with my own friends? when i shrug my guy aside, people always think there is some problem with the relationship?
aiyoh! gimme me a break please!! i need to have time with my friends too. i need to enjoy myself too. my world does not ONLY revolve around him. i have my own life, my own interests, my own friends and STOP ASKING about my guy or question the relationship when i ask you out okie?
i simply seek a simply reply. yes, you can make or no, you cant make it. simple as that.
if i take the initiative to ask you out, it SIMPLY means that im FREE. is that so hard to understand?
Grrr!!
Cherie
Hi there! Thanks for popping by. I'm Cherie, a ftwm (full-time working mum) to 3 lovely kids (2 boys & a princess) and my motto in life is to BE HAPPY. Sure, life isn't all that smooth but it's the mentality that counts, no? This blog documents my life. Or rather, snippets of my life that has passed me by. I love capturing life memories in the blog and being able to read back and laugh at myself (or anyone). I love to eat (A LOT), travel and paint my own nails so the blog is mostly about that. Is that considered lifestyle? Of cos, the family is also very much an integral part of me so there would be loads of memories about the husband and my kids - Jerry (9yo), Jerome (7yo) and Leia (2.5yo) and everyone else that's close to me. I like documenting the kids' milestones, their growing up years, their achievements (and sometimes, mine), and my struggles and battles with motherhood. It sure ain't easy. I love seeking out good food and travelling, is trigger-happy, love new gadgets, love exploring new places and strives to live life to the fullest. I aspire to travel the world as much as I can, to soak in the different sights across the various continents and visit all the Disneylands in the world (almost there!). Have fun reading and do drop me a comment to say hi! Love, Cherie Lim Find me on Instagram.
15 Comments
lilsnooze
yeah my sentiments exactly!
cherieladieblogs
yeah! i have so many friends doing the same thing to me. super irritating when im isnt in the best of moods..
Anonymous
cool down ok
aiyah..friends are always like that de..their mindset always that narrow..but nowadays, not many ppl like you still care to cherish friends..at least you have the sense of initiative to think of friends at times..thats your plus point.
cherieladieblogs
Re: cool down ok
🙂 i personally think friends are an important part of my life. without them, i wouldnt have been able to pull through my down parts of my life.
i wouldnt comment about narrow mindset, but im just puzzled why they always ask.
simoncool
Re: cool down ok
it’s standard one lah, just take it with a pinch of salt ^_^.
Why never ask me out? lol ^_^
cherieladieblogs
Re: cool down ok
cos i dont know where u ask you to. i would think you always club, but i dont. so i really have no idea where to ask you..
simoncool
Re: cool down ok
hahaha i do have a norm life too ^_^ maybe one day out for a simple dinner with peiqing lor =P, no mambo nite pls.
cherieladieblogs
Re: cool down ok
okie. let me see if i can arrange something like a simple dinner. but just to let you know, pei is one that’s super hard to date. 🙂
cherieladieblogs
Re: cool down ok
btw, u are?
unpolished_gem
i don’t do that! hahah! i won’t keep asking you where wei is…. and whether you are going out with him…. hahah!
cherieladieblogs
haha. yeah. u are prob. one of those that doesnt. you prob know my schedule very well.
i think yihui doesnt too. and a couple of others.. but there are so many others who does! 🙂
peanut_toes
i had this problem too.. i mean, sometimes we need some time for ourselves too but they just think that when u are attached, you REALLY HAVE TO BE WITH HIM OR HER ALL THE TIME huh! HMPF.
cherieladieblogs
ya! moderation is the key! i dont understand why people just dont seemed to understand. *sigh*
obtuseyanzz
tats cool. i like ur attitude in this matter. having a balance btw frens & bf. ur frens shld be glad tat u still seek a fair share in their company. just ignore them, they r jealous over u & ur bf, i mean maybe. haha.. =P
cherieladieblogs
haha. im not sure if they are jealous, but always like to ask me, “not going out with bf meh?” and when i try to be patient and reply them NO, they start getting paranoid and ask… “huh? something wrong? quarrel ah?” (this pisses me off, but i reply nonetheless..) and they always test my patience with something like, “dont bluff.. tell me what happened?”
*faints*
DONT THEY GET IT? i just want to go out myself!