it’s three
3 months have passed since the breakup. i didnt deliberately think about it. just happened to look at my calendar and remembered.
lunch was spent talking to my colleagues, 3 vs one – me. looks like its time i move on.
knowing fully well that no one is willing to put in any effort to salvage the relationship. knowing fully well that i am not willing to be the giver again. looking at how he is ‘shunning’ me to some extent.. am i right to say that i should drop all guilt and seek for my own happiness?
it’s been hard knowing so much. it’s been an emotional burden and baggage. i should just stop thinking and move on.
that’s what i think i want to do. i need to work hard towards that goal.
note to self: がんばってください！わたしわうれしいたいです
Cherie
Hi there! Thanks for popping by. I'm Cherie, a ftwm (full-time working mum) to 3 lovely kids (2 boys & a princess) and my motto in life is to BE HAPPY. Sure, life isn't all that smooth but it's the mentality that counts, no? This blog documents my life. Or rather, snippets of my life that has passed me by. I love capturing life memories in the blog and being able to read back and laugh at myself (or anyone). I love to eat (A LOT), travel and paint my own nails so the blog is mostly about that. Is that considered lifestyle? Of cos, the family is also very much an integral part of me so there would be loads of memories about the husband and my kids - Jerry (9yo), Jerome (7yo) and Leia (2.5yo) and everyone else that's close to me. I like documenting the kids' milestones, their growing up years, their achievements (and sometimes, mine), and my struggles and battles with motherhood. It sure ain't easy. I love seeking out good food and travelling, is trigger-happy, love new gadgets, love exploring new places and strives to live life to the fullest. I aspire to travel the world as much as I can, to soak in the different sights across the various continents and visit all the Disneylands in the world (almost there!). Have fun reading and do drop me a comment to say hi! Love, Cherie Lim Find me on Instagram.
7 Comments
moxielass
Jia you!
bourgeois_babe
*Hugs*. Same boat. Caught between longing for the familiar and yet weighed down by the bad memories. Email if you need to chat. Am here to listen.
vonique
*hugs.
kenties
since when you speak japanese to yourself
?!!!!
cherieladieblogs
why cant i speak jap to myself?!
zazoom
Hugs. Too much memories always make it harder to move on. But i think you know deep down wat to do. You are the brave one so choose your path and continue to be strong.
silli_boi
jia you! *pat pat*