extreme frustration
have u ever had “outsiders” controlling what u had to do and what you cant do?
im extremely frustrated now. ready to scream and snap at anyone’s that crashes into my way. im friggin’ tired. and all i wanted was to sleep.
why issit that i keep getting calls that interrupt my sleep? and that’s not all! i was told to wake up twice and was shouted and and blamed for sleeping at this hour of the time.
hello? what is the damn world coming into? my mum doesnt complain when i need to sleep and i have outsiders interfering in my life and acting like they own me?
tell me ah. how not to feel frustrated like that?!?! and i was supposed to WAKE UP and head over to my bf’s house to wake him up so that he can grab his breakfast/lunch/dinner. please lor! my bf is an adult and he doesnt needs me to feed him.
i am a working adult and im tired from waking up early for work and i cannot even fucking sleep?! fuck la! it’s not like i dont care for my boy but he’s like that i know he’s gonna be fine. but why does the world thinks that i owe it to them to care for their son/brother while no one fucking cares if im tired and i really need some sleep?
Cherie
Hi there! Thanks for popping by. I'm Cherie, a ftwm (full-time working mum) to 3 lovely kids (2 boys & a princess) and my motto in life is to BE HAPPY. Sure, life isn't all that smooth but it's the mentality that counts, no? This blog documents my life. Or rather, snippets of my life that has passed me by. I love capturing life memories in the blog and being able to read back and laugh at myself (or anyone). I love to eat (A LOT), travel and paint my own nails so the blog is mostly about that. Is that considered lifestyle? Of cos, the family is also very much an integral part of me so there would be loads of memories about the husband and my kids - Jerry (9yo), Jerome (7yo) and Leia (2.5yo) and everyone else that's close to me. I like documenting the kids' milestones, their growing up years, their achievements (and sometimes, mine), and my struggles and battles with motherhood. It sure ain't easy. I love seeking out good food and travelling, is trigger-happy, love new gadgets, love exploring new places and strives to live life to the fullest. I aspire to travel the world as much as I can, to soak in the different sights across the various continents and visit all the Disneylands in the world (almost there!). Have fun reading and do drop me a comment to say hi! Love, Cherie Lim Find me on Instagram.
4 Comments
wwenzz
Sleep is extremely precious for busy working adult like you! Off ya phone next time.. or put silent mode and return the calls when you wake up?
cherieladieblogs
i dont usually put my phone on silent mode/off in case someone wants to find me urgently..
the people im talking abt in my post are persistent callers i tell you. the worse thing is i cant talk back, but i just cannot stand it that they deemed it wrong for me to be sleeping in the evening and shout at me to wake even i told them nicely i worked in the morning and am very tired.
complicated relationships. just annoying. and it happens EVERY week. Grr.
sigh.
Anonymous
Testing
Dearest Cherie
Things are sent to test you… just remember that… try to not let it bother you because its just not worth it… To be honest there are so many people who just have too much time to “pick” on others… my belief is treat them well and exagerate it…! Try not to freak out in front of them… just smile and say “Thank you for the advice!” then walk away. Y’know – it makes the other person vent far more inside!!! I love it!! hehehe. The more you get affected by them, the more they will carry on..
With love
Daze
cherieladieblogs
Re: Testing
hi daze,
thanks for the advice. unfortunately, they are not picking on me. they are ruling my life as if i was their doll. (hint: think in parent and child) but the sad thing is im not related in blood with these people.
it’s not advice they are issuing. its commands. even when i tell them im friggin tired, worked in the morning and needed sleep, i was told to wake up and grab dinner cos it’s not the RIGHT time to be sleeping.
i think the prisoners are better off than me.